It’s now September and that means Marine Corps Birthday Ball season is fast approaching, with some happening as early as October! Dressing for the Ball seems simple enough. It’s a black tie event, which means non-service members should be either wearing a floor-length dress if they’re female, or suit and tie or tuxedo if you’re a male.
Those aren’t my rules, they’re straight from the MCCS website on proper ball etiquette but if you need further validation, ask the nearest General. Just kidding.
Really though, I can’t tell you how many times I’ve seen guests sit through the ceremony, enjoy the dinner, then change into sweatpants for the dancing/party portion of the evening. Please don’t let that be you! It’s roughly four hours of dressing to the nines, you can make it! Also, it’s perfectly acceptable to wear shorter heels if you just. can’t. handle. sky-high heels.
This year will be our 6th ball (well, 5th, we missed a year due to the birth of our second little angel) and of all the years of observation and participation, I have a good idea of what works and what doesn’t.
So, if you’re in need of some inspiration, or if this is your first ball and you’re clueless as to what to wear, I’ve compiled a list of stunning and appropriate dresses and shoe options that will make you look and feel like the goddess that you are!
Typically, many women opt to coordinate with their husband’s Dress Blues (see my pics above ^^) by wearing a neutral (white, champagne, gold, silver, gray), dark blue (navy, royal), black, or red dress. This is not mandatory!
This year I am wearing none of those colors and I am so excited to share my ensemble with you all when the day arrives! Patience, my friends.
The more sparkle, the better in my humble opinion! Channel the bold and extravagant old-world glamour of the Gilded Age in this glitzy ensemble.
Let the dress do the talking with understated accessories that compliment.
Channel your inner Flamenco dancer in this stunning red mermaid gown with dazzling drop earrings and metallic gold strappy heels. You are The Lady in Red.
One shoulder = Flattering. Bows = Awesome.
Drawing colors and tones from a decorative clutch to make a solid dress sparkle = Fire.
Show off your investment heels in this edgy hi-low ball gown.
Hi-low gowns are my favorite! Since the front is shorter than the back, there is no need for alterations and even if the train is a bit long, it just adds to the glamour (see my hi-low Mac Duggal gown above)! SUPER petite friendly!
Strappy, caged heels like the Choos above are my go to because they sort of hold your foot in place securely and thus, are more comfortable for walking and dancing.
I love the luxurious combination of wine and gold. The off the shoulder sleeves of this ultra-feminine gown are reminiscent of flowers, which I’ve played up with the romantic floral necklace and clutch.
Here are some tried-and-true stores to check out that myself and/or other Marine wives have had luck finding dresses at:
-Lord & Taylor
-eBay (my black brocade ball gown was an eBay score!)
-Macy’s (tons of sales!)
If you have no choice but to buy online, opt for a large department store like Nordstrom, Macy’s, Bloomingdale’s, etc. because they accept returns! I don’t recommend shopping at a dress boutique unless you can go there and try on, because 99% of them will not allow you to return your dress if you try it on and it doesn’t fit. This is definitely something to consider, as many of the brands you will find at specialty gown boutiques have sizing that runs differently from regular clothing brands, in my experience.